Family offices: patient money with one decision-maker.

A family office manages one family's wealth, and some invest straight into startups. Here is how they decide, what they ask for and how to reach one.

At a glance

Stages

Seed to growth

Pre-seed · Seed · A · B+ · Growth

Decision time

Weeks to months

Slower than angels, faster than a committee

Who decides

One principal

A small team advises; one person signs

Leads rounds?

Rarely at seed

Usually follows a lead they trust

What a family office is

A private company that manages the money of one wealthy family, or several. Most of it goes into public markets, property and funds. A growing share goes directly into startups.

Because the money is their own, there is no fund clock forcing an exit and no outside investors to answer to. That makes them patient.

It also means there is no public mandate to read. Each office invests where the family's interests, history and advisers point it.

Single-family office

One family. The principal or a chief investment officer decides. Fast once interested.

Multi-family office

Several families pooled. A small committee and a mandate they must stick to.

How they decide

Fit with the family

They invest where the family made its money, or in causes it cares about.

A trusted co-investor

Most follow a lead they know. Have your lead in view first.

Principal meeting

One conversation decides it. Expect questions on people and downside.

Personal diligence

Fewer data-room requests than a VC. More reference calls about you.

What they look for

A founder to trust for ten years

They back people before plans.

Capital efficiency

A path that doesn't need endless rounds.

A credible lead

Co-investors already committed.

A link to the family

Their industry, region or values.

Downside they understand

Pro-rata and information rights.

How to reach one

Most don't take cold pitches. Go through someone the family already trusts.

The principal

Writing cold? Five lines, the link to the family, and the name of your lead.

  • Their lawyer or adviser
  • A portfolio founder
  • A co-investor in your round
  • A banker who serves them

Is your deck ready for a family office?

We read it the way a principal would: the team slide, the downside, the use of funds. You get a score and the three slides to fix first.

Questions founders ask

Do family offices invest in pre-seed?

Some do, usually through angel-style checks from a family member rather than the office itself. Most come in at seed or later, alongside a lead.

Will a family office take a board seat?

Rarely at seed. Observer seats and information rights are more common.

Can I find family offices here?

Not on public pages. Investor matching is coming to your free account, where it can use your stage, sector and city.

Sources

Sources: regulator definitions of family offices; investors' published criteria; industry reports. Editorial content, reviewed quarterly. Not financial advice.

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